Over the years I've had numerous conversations with my male friends about what they find sexy in a woman, and I've been keeping a running tab on the comments.
The list below, and its accompanying explanations, may surprise you. Remember, this is an aggregate list, presented in descending order, and derived from men with diverse personalities and backgrounds.
10. Physically attractive
This is probably not a surprise. The surprise is that it's number 10 on this list. Being physically attractive is apparently the golden ticket to enter the sexy girl's club. How is "physically attractive" defined by men? The way that you probably think. Yes, it's stereotypical; hip-to-waist ratio, girlish facial features, and symmetry (how well-proportioned a woman is). These physical qualities still reign supreme in an idealistic sense.
9. Approachable
Ironically, the more physically attractive a woman is, the less she gets approached. Many beautiful and/or successful women will agree. It's not that men prefer flawed women, they are just more comfortable approaching a woman who does not appear to be "perfect," and thus; may be more receptive to them...and their flaws.
8. Cool personality
While it's true that men grow up wanting the cheerleader/model/stripper, they also appreciate the "girl next door," who has wholesome, down-to-earth qualities. While spending time with her may feel like time spent with "one of the guys," she will always reminds us that she's a woman - and a sexy one at that.
7. Open-minded
There are several reasons why men want a woman to be open-minded. The first is that it means she will entertain different ideas and perspectives which could go a long way toward building and maintaining a relationship. It also means that she may consider a threesome - no matter how remote of a possibility.
6. Competitive
Women are competitive with each other when they are single. They need to retain that same competitive spirit while in a relationship. The type of competitiveness that men find sexy is when our women can identify another sexy woman, and best her sexiness. In other words, know what we find sexy about another woman and emulate it.
The list below, and its accompanying explanations, may surprise you. Remember, this is an aggregate list, presented in descending order, and derived from men with diverse personalities and backgrounds.
10. Physically attractive
This is probably not a surprise. The surprise is that it's number 10 on this list. Being physically attractive is apparently the golden ticket to enter the sexy girl's club. How is "physically attractive" defined by men? The way that you probably think. Yes, it's stereotypical; hip-to-waist ratio, girlish facial features, and symmetry (how well-proportioned a woman is). These physical qualities still reign supreme in an idealistic sense.
9. Approachable
Ironically, the more physically attractive a woman is, the less she gets approached. Many beautiful and/or successful women will agree. It's not that men prefer flawed women, they are just more comfortable approaching a woman who does not appear to be "perfect," and thus; may be more receptive to them...and their flaws.
8. Cool personality
While it's true that men grow up wanting the cheerleader/model/stripper, they also appreciate the "girl next door," who has wholesome, down-to-earth qualities. While spending time with her may feel like time spent with "one of the guys," she will always reminds us that she's a woman - and a sexy one at that.
7. Open-minded
There are several reasons why men want a woman to be open-minded. The first is that it means she will entertain different ideas and perspectives which could go a long way toward building and maintaining a relationship. It also means that she may consider a threesome - no matter how remote of a possibility.
6. Competitive
Women are competitive with each other when they are single. They need to retain that same competitive spirit while in a relationship. The type of competitiveness that men find sexy is when our women can identify another sexy woman, and best her sexiness. In other words, know what we find sexy about another woman and emulate it.
